"If you feel like you haven't made a difference or there is no chance to change the world, remember you are changing it... One person at a time. Because the influence and impact you make on one life is one step closer to making a difference. Aim to make a difference and be compassionate to each person in your life, and those to come."
I think this applies to the good and people that we meet in our lifetime. Even bad boyfriends, back stabbing friends, and rude strangers have an impact on our life that can be a positive influence! I have life examples of how the bad ones helped me.
I once had a boyfriend who got drunk out of his mind and punched me like I was a man. You know that taught me what NOT to look for in a man and what I will not tolerate in ANY relationship.
I once had a friend who I felt was constantly against me, trying to get into my business and really, I should have listened to her, because she turned out to be right. EVERY relationship has its ups and downs including friendships.
I once got flipped off while I was driving the speed limit. The feeling I got from being flipped off helped me hold my bird down if I get road rage. I wouldn't want anyone to feel how I did when that happened to me.
I've been chewed up, spit out, cheated on, ran through some deep shit, but I know it could always be worse, and I am so thankful for all the GOOD in my life because it always outweighs the bad. I have been so blessed and given so much in my life that I try to see the good in everything, even though sometimes I think it is impossible. I really get a kick out of it when I am driving by myself and a thought of something happy hits my mind and I smile and giggle to myself. That happened today while I was driving to work. It is sunny and beautiful out and I was thinking about Bella, my dog, and how she and my cat O'Malley play so well and make me laugh and smile. I laughed and smiled so big my face hurt. Remember we are the only ones that have the choice to change our attitude. My best friend once told me that happiness is a choice. Sometimes I get sad, or down, or the weather is nasty... So I sit down with old photos, call an old friend I haven't spoke to in a while, or talk about memories with my Sister, Dad, or Mom that we have been telling for years. Every person has touched your life for a reason, and I truly believe God puts these people in our lives to help us learn and grow and know His love. We love others and you will be repaid in full plus some in happiness and joy that will last you more than a life time.
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